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So for starters on my new topic Lifestyle I thought I might introduce y'all to a few really good lifestyle blogs and bloggers to visit online. (Probably because they are way better than me at lifestyle blogging)

You might be thinking, what exactly is 'Lifestyle blogging'? Well I didn't really know in the first place but once I got into it, it was a really uplifting way to encourage yourself using your day to day life and strengthening those normal lifestyle things, whether worries, mom questions or how to's.

So the google definition is: A way in which a person or group lives. A lifestyle blog is about one persons individual life, such as events that have happened in their life, their kids, spouse, family, vacations, just things that they want to share with the world.

Starting off: Barefoot Blonde  by Amber Fillerup. She focuses a lot on family, hair, and fashions. To me she puts a lot in about her personal life and expands a lot on important events in her family.
Photo by Barefoot Blonde
A cup of Jo is a great blog to go check out because it is so heartfelt and meaningful. She focuses a lot on motherhood and life and just how to be a mom. She also likes to write about travel, relationships and fashion.
Photo from A Cup of Jo

Another great motherhood and beauty blog is A Piece of Toast. She loves to write about motherhood and baby care, but is great at beauty tips and fashion
Photo by A Piece of Toast

Next up is The Blonde Abroad. As you might have noticed, she likes to write about traveling and her adventures. :) She also specializes in feminism, and photography.

Photo from The Blonde Abroad

Deliciously Ella is probably one of my favorite blogs because, her name is Ella, like me! Of course she specializes in cooking and healthy lifestyles, which a lot of us are interested in.

Photo from Deliciously Ella

Sincerely Jules is a great lifestyle blog because its all about lifestyle! She really goes heart to heart about her life but at the same time focuses a lot on fashion and style.

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Photo from Sincerely Jules


A great fashion and mom lifestyle blog is Sandy A La Mode. She focuses intently on motherhood and especially fashion tips and tricks.
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Photo by Sandy A La Mode

Overall, these are all great ladies who do great jobs of expressing themselves through blogging. I hope this interests you and gets you motivated to live your best life.


March 19, 2019 No comments
Motivation seems to be a big part in my life: Whether its from folding a mountain of clothes or trying to come up with ideas for a new blog post, I constantly find myself needing something to speed me up or get me started.

So I decided to come up with some ideas to help y'all along if you find yourself in the same boat as me. :)


"Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it's always your choice."
-Wayne Dyer


1. Remind yourself why you want to do something.
When you remind yourself of this you tell yourself, 'what do I have to look forward to in finishing this?' You sort of set a goal mentally, but instead of planning and preparing, you automatically say, 'Yeah, I want that reward.'

2. Just get started: Let motivation catch up to you. 
Even though you might not want to even think about starting something, if you get wrapped up in your work you get motivated to finish something. You started something, so its waiting for you to finish it. 

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3. Start small if starting big makes you procrastinate, or the other way around.
If a big project makes you procrastinate, then desize it. Don't overwhelm yourself. If you do a lot of small things, then you may find yourself doing to many things at once. Find what your comfort zone is, and use it to lessen the weight of the project and motivate you to work harder.


4. Get positive
If you are constantly negative about your work or what you are doing, you'll never be able to convince yourself that its going to turn out great and you'll quit. When you are positive you fill your mind with thoughts that uplift you, and motivate you to keep going.
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5. Reduce your to-do list to just a few items.
If you have an insane amount of to-dos on your list, it can seriously burden your work and make it even harder for you to enjoy and progress with your project. It can do the opposite of motivating: slowing you down. You don't want all that extra stress. 

Things like 'Gah, I have so much work to do today, on top of shuttling the kids to sports practices and my workout, yoga, and PTA jobs.' are all representations of an overfilled to-do list. Try spacing things out over your week. You could schedule a dance class on Friday, and workout on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, instead of it all on one day.



6. Be kind to yourself when you make a mistake
People are not perfect, and whenever we make a mistake we tend to say, 'Why? That was so stupid.' And we quit. But I'm here to encourage you to lift your chin up and remind yourself that, yes, we are not perfect and you are bound to make mistakes. 

If you constantly push yourself down after a mistake, when they pile up you can't motivate yourself at all. Your just digging a deeper hole for yourself. Perk up, it'll be alright. :)

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7. Break your work into smaller chunks.
If you want to tackle a huge project, is it better to take it all at once or piece it out, where you can slowly but surely put it together and have a less chance of making a mistake?

Chances are, the answer is breaking down your work. When you are able to see what you have to do, it's way less stressful that tackling it all at once. Breaking it down allows you to plan ahead and avoid mistakes, and allows breathing room and experimentation.

It also helps you to be able to put your best work forward. If you slow down and aren't stressed, you can perfect the things you might not have noticed before. You can add extra details to make it better, and you have more time to work problems out.

This helps to motivate because it takes all the stress off your shoulders. How are you supposed to work when you have the weight of a gigantic project in progress all at once in your hands? Bite off what you can chew.


8. Give yourself breaks
Don't overwork yourself. Too hard of a slog can ruin your general motivation, and can add extra stress that piles onto your continuous work.

Plus, it's really boring working all. The. Time.

So try to find times where your work slows down or you don't have as much to do. Take a walk. Get some coffee or a snack. Read a book that you enjoy. (Not a insanely hard business book that makes you think MORE) Just try to give your brain a break sometimes.



Now, you might be thinking, how really do I keep myself motivated? Remind yourself constantly of what works best for you in terms of these motivation tips. Write it on a sticky note. Set a reminder on your phone. Put these tips in your work space. Spice it up. Stay motivated.

March 15, 2019 No comments
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